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		<title>By: qricket</title>
		<link>http://www.mattromaine.com/2007/02/22/creepy-crawlies-comin-out-o-the-woods/comment-page-3/#comment-32608</link>
		<dc:creator>qricket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 11:37:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was in Ueno koen today with my Japanese girlfriend watching the koi when a man came up and berated her for being with me, saying that she was polluting the Japanese race. I as you can imagine am of non-Japanese decent(I&#039;m a whiteboy). Its funny cause as far as I know the two of us dont have any offspring yet. Racism is very much alive in Japan, hell the UN named the country in its report on Xenophobia.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in Ueno koen today with my Japanese girlfriend watching the koi when a man came up and berated her for being with me, saying that she was polluting the Japanese race. I as you can imagine am of non-Japanese decent(I&#8217;m a whiteboy). Its funny cause as far as I know the two of us dont have any offspring yet. Racism is very much alive in Japan, hell the UN named the country in its report on Xenophobia.</p>
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		<title>By: Garethy</title>
		<link>http://www.mattromaine.com/2007/02/22/creepy-crawlies-comin-out-o-the-woods/comment-page-3/#comment-31093</link>
		<dc:creator>Garethy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 04:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will tell you another experience. One I have NEVER experienced in Japan. I was in California Palo Alto to be exact. I was looking in the window of Blockbusters and said something to my friend. A passing delightful young white woman probably university student said &quot;Why don&#039;t go back where you came from ?&quot;.

America is the most racist place I have ever been to. Its hard to imagine but black people were only aloud to sit in the same glass room or same place in the bus from the 60s! That mentality hasn&#039;t really changed unfortunately.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will tell you another experience. One I have NEVER experienced in Japan. I was in California Palo Alto to be exact. I was looking in the window of Blockbusters and said something to my friend. A passing delightful young white woman probably university student said &#8220;Why don&#8217;t go back where you came from ?&#8221;.</p>
<p>America is the most racist place I have ever been to. Its hard to imagine but black people were only aloud to sit in the same glass room or same place in the bus from the 60s! That mentality hasn&#8217;t really changed unfortunately.</p>
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		<title>By: Garethy</title>
		<link>http://www.mattromaine.com/2007/02/22/creepy-crawlies-comin-out-o-the-woods/comment-page-3/#comment-31092</link>
		<dc:creator>Garethy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 04:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dude, stop being a pussy in on the train. No one moves out of the way on the train. If you havent learned by now the way to do it is barge through.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dude, stop being a pussy in on the train. No one moves out of the way on the train. If you havent learned by now the way to do it is barge through.</p>
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		<title>By: psypho</title>
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		<dc:creator>psypho</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>to spidey79:  Someone needs to start reading further into the racial label of &quot;latin&quot; or &quot;latino&quot;.  You are right about the Nixon connection, but you&#039;re disparagement of &quot;whites&quot; is laughable.  You sound like as though you&#039;re Latin yourself and you have dissociated yourself of your own ethnic origins, like many latins do.  The fact is that the word latin is Euro-Centric in nature as well.   The word was originally applied to nations that were associated or were a part of the Roman Empire in its heyday, which includes nations such as France, Portugal, Italy, Romania, and any other additional European nations I have not mentioned.  The word was in reference to a specific language and peoples found in Italy, in the area known as Latium.  This Wikipedia entry better explains what Latin is:

[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latin]
&quot;Latin (lingua Latīna, pronounced [laˈtiːna]) is an Italic language, historically spoken in Latium and Ancient Rome. Through Roman conquest, Latin spread throughout the Mediterranean and a large part of Europe. It later evolved into such languages as French, Italian, Romanian, Spanish, Portuguese and Catalan. It was also the international language of science and scholarship in central and western Europe until the 17th century. There are two varieties of Latin: Classical Latin, the literary dialect used in poetry and prose, and Vulgar Latin, the form of the language spoken by ordinary people. Vulgar Latin was preserved as a spoken language in much of Europe after the decline of the Roman Empire, and by the 9th century diverged into the various Romance languages.

After the fall of the Western Roman Empire, Latin survived as the lingua franca of educated classes in the West, and this survival was reinforced by the adoption of Latin by the Catholic Church. In this milieu it survived as a mother-tongue at least into the second millennium A.D. and is referred to as Medieval Latin. The Renaissance had the paradoxical effect of briefly reinforcing the position of Latin as a spoken language, through its (re?)adoption by the Renaissance Humanists - for example the French essayist Montaigne (1533-1592) spoke Latin as his mother-tongue.[citation needed] After the 16th century, the popularity of Medieval Latin began to decline.

Latin lives on in the form of Ecclesiastical Latin used for edicts and papal bulls issued by the Catholic Church. Much Latin vocabulary is used in science, academia, and law. Classical Latin, the literary language of the late Republic and early Empire, is still taught in many primary, grammar, and secondary schools, often combined with Greek in the study of Classics, though its role has diminished since the early 20th century. The Latin alphabet, together with its modern variants such as the English, Spanish and French alphabets, is the most widely used alphabet in the world.&quot;

So in reality, somewhere in the long line of your heritage, your indigenous mother or grandmother was raped or boned by a filthy, swarthy, hairy, smelly, un-bathed, disease ridden Spaniard.  And where do all Spaniards come from?  Answer: Europe.  And what does Europe&#039;s indigenous population consist of?  Answer:  White people.   So in all reality, no matter how you shake, bake it, or baste it - every single jorge, maria, and santos in every area of the world that the Latins (French, Italians, Spaniards, Portuguese) have invaded - we&#039;re all white in some measure.  So to berate, bombast, and ridicule &quot;whites&quot; is really just a proverbial self imposed slapping of the face and an ass-fucking of one&#039;s self.  

Just food for thought and my two cents.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to spidey79:  Someone needs to start reading further into the racial label of &#8220;latin&#8221; or &#8220;latino&#8221;.  You are right about the Nixon connection, but you&#8217;re disparagement of &#8220;whites&#8221; is laughable.  You sound like as though you&#8217;re Latin yourself and you have dissociated yourself of your own ethnic origins, like many latins do.  The fact is that the word latin is Euro-Centric in nature as well.   The word was originally applied to nations that were associated or were a part of the Roman Empire in its heyday, which includes nations such as France, Portugal, Italy, Romania, and any other additional European nations I have not mentioned.  The word was in reference to a specific language and peoples found in Italy, in the area known as Latium.  This Wikipedia entry better explains what Latin is:</p>
<p>[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latin]<br />
&#8220;Latin (lingua Latīna, pronounced [laˈtiːna]) is an Italic language, historically spoken in Latium and Ancient Rome. Through Roman conquest, Latin spread throughout the Mediterranean and a large part of Europe. It later evolved into such languages as French, Italian, Romanian, Spanish, Portuguese and Catalan. It was also the international language of science and scholarship in central and western Europe until the 17th century. There are two varieties of Latin: Classical Latin, the literary dialect used in poetry and prose, and Vulgar Latin, the form of the language spoken by ordinary people. Vulgar Latin was preserved as a spoken language in much of Europe after the decline of the Roman Empire, and by the 9th century diverged into the various Romance languages.</p>
<p>After the fall of the Western Roman Empire, Latin survived as the lingua franca of educated classes in the West, and this survival was reinforced by the adoption of Latin by the Catholic Church. In this milieu it survived as a mother-tongue at least into the second millennium A.D. and is referred to as Medieval Latin. The Renaissance had the paradoxical effect of briefly reinforcing the position of Latin as a spoken language, through its (re?)adoption by the Renaissance Humanists &#8211; for example the French essayist Montaigne (1533-1592) spoke Latin as his mother-tongue.[citation needed] After the 16th century, the popularity of Medieval Latin began to decline.</p>
<p>Latin lives on in the form of Ecclesiastical Latin used for edicts and papal bulls issued by the Catholic Church. Much Latin vocabulary is used in science, academia, and law. Classical Latin, the literary language of the late Republic and early Empire, is still taught in many primary, grammar, and secondary schools, often combined with Greek in the study of Classics, though its role has diminished since the early 20th century. The Latin alphabet, together with its modern variants such as the English, Spanish and French alphabets, is the most widely used alphabet in the world.&#8221;</p>
<p>So in reality, somewhere in the long line of your heritage, your indigenous mother or grandmother was raped or boned by a filthy, swarthy, hairy, smelly, un-bathed, disease ridden Spaniard.  And where do all Spaniards come from?  Answer: Europe.  And what does Europe&#8217;s indigenous population consist of?  Answer:  White people.   So in all reality, no matter how you shake, bake it, or baste it &#8211; every single jorge, maria, and santos in every area of the world that the Latins (French, Italians, Spaniards, Portuguese) have invaded &#8211; we&#8217;re all white in some measure.  So to berate, bombast, and ridicule &#8220;whites&#8221; is really just a proverbial self imposed slapping of the face and an ass-fucking of one&#8217;s self.  </p>
<p>Just food for thought and my two cents.</p>
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		<title>By: Seeker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seeker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 06:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Geez, people, what is up with all the hate?  WWII was over 60 years ago, which means IT IS OVER.  Yes it happened, and I&#039;m sure there is still some residual tension, but the people of the younger generations (like myself) want to move on.  I&#039;m an American.  I am white.  I speak Japanese.   I have spent time in Japan.  The majority of the Japanese people I have met were very nice and helpful, but not everyone will like you.  That&#039;s just tough, and you shouldn&#039;t expect to be treated like a king or even with respect just because you are American.  However, if you maintain a positive spirit and actually think about others before yourself, show respect and kindness to others, and maybe actually learn about the people, culture, and place you are visiting/living, you will earn respect from most people in time.  Also, America is wrong.  A lot.  We are secretly infecting Japanese society with our media and images of pop stars like Britney Spears just so some rich white guys can make a buck.  We should promote the good things America has to offer and leave the crap back home so we and we alone can deal with it.  When you spew hate and blame it only gives people more reason to hate and blame you back.  Both countries have plenty of reasons to not get along, but why focus on that?  Why not focus on a future of partnership together?  Seriously.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Geez, people, what is up with all the hate?  WWII was over 60 years ago, which means IT IS OVER.  Yes it happened, and I&#8217;m sure there is still some residual tension, but the people of the younger generations (like myself) want to move on.  I&#8217;m an American.  I am white.  I speak Japanese.   I have spent time in Japan.  The majority of the Japanese people I have met were very nice and helpful, but not everyone will like you.  That&#8217;s just tough, and you shouldn&#8217;t expect to be treated like a king or even with respect just because you are American.  However, if you maintain a positive spirit and actually think about others before yourself, show respect and kindness to others, and maybe actually learn about the people, culture, and place you are visiting/living, you will earn respect from most people in time.  Also, America is wrong.  A lot.  We are secretly infecting Japanese society with our media and images of pop stars like Britney Spears just so some rich white guys can make a buck.  We should promote the good things America has to offer and leave the crap back home so we and we alone can deal with it.  When you spew hate and blame it only gives people more reason to hate and blame you back.  Both countries have plenty of reasons to not get along, but why focus on that?  Why not focus on a future of partnership together?  Seriously.</p>
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		<title>By: Mirza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mirza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2007 15:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Xenophobia and racism are nothing new anywhere. In USA there is all this propaganda against Muslims and Hispanics. Europe is even worse with gangs of neo-nazzis attacking immigrants nightly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Xenophobia and racism are nothing new anywhere. In USA there is all this propaganda against Muslims and Hispanics. Europe is even worse with gangs of neo-nazzis attacking immigrants nightly.</p>
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		<title>By: mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 May 2007 17:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, well...
  Japan  is the most race concious country I have ever been to. It is true Japanese people are generally polite. But don&#039;t forget the fact that they are polite because they consider it &quot;Japanese&quot; to be polite. In other words, the &quot;lesser races&quot; are not as polite as they are. 
  Yeah, many will help you only because they feel like the Japanese language is something &quot;unlearnable&quot; to foreigners. It doesn&#039;t matter how good your Japanese is, they will still treat you like your ignorant. For people who trully, and I mean trully, don&#039;t understand the Japanese language this may be a good quality. But try talking to Westerners who have lived in Japan for over 10 years and speak fluently, and they&#039;ll tell you how annoyed they are by this. 
   Those of you who have had conversations with Japanese people in Japan will notice the conversation never goes to far past talking about the &quot;Japanese master race&quot; and &quot;culture.&quot; I know some of you out there will post some type of comment to defend the Japanese on this topic, but please don&#039;t deny the fact that all they talk about is their own country. Oh, and if they ask you about your country it&#039;s only to point out that they&#039;re different. Usually they do this to point out how they&#039;re culturally superior. You don&#039;t believe me? Pay attention during your next conversation. 
    How about their ABO Blood-Type theory about personality traits? Most Japanese are type A, and guess what, of course they consider that the &quot;hard worker&quot; and overall best trait. You want to know something even more scary about the &quot;master race&quot;? The average Japanese thinks that the type A blood type IS FOUND ONLY IN JAPAN!!!! Don&#039;t believe me? Play a joke on the next japanese person you meet and tell them that you are type A even if you really aren&#039;t. That&#039;ll really confuse them. A little history lesson...this blood type theory came about during WWII when the Japanese were doing genetic tests on Taiwanese people to find out why they were so &quot;uncivilized.&quot; Please do your research before your respond to that one!
   Any Koreans reading this entry? Try talking to some of the Koreans whose perents or grandperents were brought to Japan as slaves during WWII. Ask them why the Japanese government doesn&#039;t even give them citizenships. Ask your Korean friends why they can&#039;t get decent Jobs. 
   Racism is everywhere, period. But what gets me mad is when idiot Westerners who don&#039;t even speak Japanese well defend Japanese racism. Racism shouldn&#039;t be defended anywhere by anybody, period!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, well&#8230;<br />
  Japan  is the most race concious country I have ever been to. It is true Japanese people are generally polite. But don&#8217;t forget the fact that they are polite because they consider it &#8220;Japanese&#8221; to be polite. In other words, the &#8220;lesser races&#8221; are not as polite as they are.<br />
  Yeah, many will help you only because they feel like the Japanese language is something &#8220;unlearnable&#8221; to foreigners. It doesn&#8217;t matter how good your Japanese is, they will still treat you like your ignorant. For people who trully, and I mean trully, don&#8217;t understand the Japanese language this may be a good quality. But try talking to Westerners who have lived in Japan for over 10 years and speak fluently, and they&#8217;ll tell you how annoyed they are by this.<br />
   Those of you who have had conversations with Japanese people in Japan will notice the conversation never goes to far past talking about the &#8220;Japanese master race&#8221; and &#8220;culture.&#8221; I know some of you out there will post some type of comment to defend the Japanese on this topic, but please don&#8217;t deny the fact that all they talk about is their own country. Oh, and if they ask you about your country it&#8217;s only to point out that they&#8217;re different. Usually they do this to point out how they&#8217;re culturally superior. You don&#8217;t believe me? Pay attention during your next conversation.<br />
    How about their ABO Blood-Type theory about personality traits? Most Japanese are type A, and guess what, of course they consider that the &#8220;hard worker&#8221; and overall best trait. You want to know something even more scary about the &#8220;master race&#8221;? The average Japanese thinks that the type A blood type IS FOUND ONLY IN JAPAN!!!! Don&#8217;t believe me? Play a joke on the next japanese person you meet and tell them that you are type A even if you really aren&#8217;t. That&#8217;ll really confuse them. A little history lesson&#8230;this blood type theory came about during WWII when the Japanese were doing genetic tests on Taiwanese people to find out why they were so &#8220;uncivilized.&#8221; Please do your research before your respond to that one!<br />
   Any Koreans reading this entry? Try talking to some of the Koreans whose perents or grandperents were brought to Japan as slaves during WWII. Ask them why the Japanese government doesn&#8217;t even give them citizenships. Ask your Korean friends why they can&#8217;t get decent Jobs.<br />
   Racism is everywhere, period. But what gets me mad is when idiot Westerners who don&#8217;t even speak Japanese well defend Japanese racism. Racism shouldn&#8217;t be defended anywhere by anybody, period!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Jayson Barclay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jayson Barclay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 03:22:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Racism exists and it is deplorable. Do you know what it&#039;s like to be discriminated against? I do, every time I visit the in-laws I get the feeling they wish I was dead.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Racism exists and it is deplorable. Do you know what it&#8217;s like to be discriminated against? I do, every time I visit the in-laws I get the feeling they wish I was dead.</p>
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		<title>By: Eternal Dusk</title>
		<link>http://www.mattromaine.com/2007/02/22/creepy-crawlies-comin-out-o-the-woods/comment-page-3/#comment-999</link>
		<dc:creator>Eternal Dusk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2007 00:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow...two people make the WHOLE country racist
and here we&#039;re busy portrayin muslims as terrorists, but hey, WE&#039;RE not racist...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow&#8230;two people make the WHOLE country racist<br />
and here we&#8217;re busy portrayin muslims as terrorists, but hey, WE&#8217;RE not racist&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sterling Knight</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sterling Knight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 08:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is the misconseption that Japanese people are especially polite that causes this kind of misunderstanding. People are people the world over. DUH! There are good, bad, kind, and rude people in every country. In my twenty years in Osaka, I&#039;ve seen pretty much most of it all.

GAMAN means to bear, put up with, or endure something.

I&#039;m from northern California, but I&#039;ve lived in Kansai for twenty years in Hirakata, Hirano, Yao, Saidaiji, Kyobashi, Senboku, Abeno, Tennouji, Shinsekai, Fuse, and Higashi Osaka, and I wouldn&#039;t want to be any other place on earth, but so far I have yet to experience the politeness the Japanese seem to be so famous for overseas.

So-called Japanese Politeness seems to be based on Gaman and Saving Face, to the point of utter stupidity.

Why do people put up with neighborhood dogs that bark constantly?

Why do people put up with rude old men who fart, hawk up phlegm, and spit on subway platforms?

Why isn&#039;t curfew enforced? Minors are out at all hours being mischievous and making all kinds of noise.

Every foreigner, in their own time and place in Japan, has many likes, dislikes, complaints, experiences, and tales.

I think many Japanese have good intentions, for the most part, but I don&#039;t like the way some don&#039;t know what to do when they find themselves in the presents of a foreigner--they laugh nervously and bow a lot, especially if they&#039;re in a foreign country where they&#039;re out of their group, their comfort zone, where their roles are explicitly defined for them.

I can&#039;t help but remember when I was in Guam, when I had to practically walk the entire way back to the resort from the Japanese consulate because no taxis would stop for me. Finally, one did stop, and I asked the driver, &quot;Is something going on today?&quot;

The driver grunted and touched his small display of Mother Mary and the Christ Child on his dashboard.

&quot;I just flagged about five taxis,&quot; I continued, &quot;but they didn&#039;t even slow down.&quot;

&quot;Most driver only pick up Japanese,&quot; the driver said. &quot;They tip. White boy like you do not tip.&quot;

&quot;I tip!&quot; I said. &quot;I just don&#039;t like it when you guys think you can keep ALL the change. It happened to me this morning. You guys just keep it and open the door without saying a word.&quot;

The driver looked in his rearview mirror at me and grunted again.

&quot;I think most Japanese can speak enough English to ask for their change, but the way you guys just keep it! They don&#039;t want to make waves and embarrass you--that would make them very uncomfortable. They probably think you&#039;re too stupid to figure it out!&quot;

&quot;What you say?&quot; the driver said, and slowed the taxi.

&quot;Yeah, pull over and let me out!&quot; I said. I tossed aside a ten-dollar bill as I got out of the taxi and slammed the door. The driver flipped me his middle finger and sped off.

I walked the rest of the way back to the hotel in anger; I hated ignorant westerners and assholes that took advantage of what they considered Japanese Politeness. I thought it was, for the most part, just the lack of international skills of some Japanese, who, when out of their group that defines them to the core, have problems acting and reacting, so they rely on Saving Face and Gaman, even in their own country, which I don&#039;t think is true politeness.

Politeness means to act in a courteous manner, but it also means to show regard for others, even if it means a few words of rectification, the act of offering an improvement to replace a fault, and not just putting up with it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is the misconseption that Japanese people are especially polite that causes this kind of misunderstanding. People are people the world over. DUH! There are good, bad, kind, and rude people in every country. In my twenty years in Osaka, I&#8217;ve seen pretty much most of it all.</p>
<p>GAMAN means to bear, put up with, or endure something.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m from northern California, but I&#8217;ve lived in Kansai for twenty years in Hirakata, Hirano, Yao, Saidaiji, Kyobashi, Senboku, Abeno, Tennouji, Shinsekai, Fuse, and Higashi Osaka, and I wouldn&#8217;t want to be any other place on earth, but so far I have yet to experience the politeness the Japanese seem to be so famous for overseas.</p>
<p>So-called Japanese Politeness seems to be based on Gaman and Saving Face, to the point of utter stupidity.</p>
<p>Why do people put up with neighborhood dogs that bark constantly?</p>
<p>Why do people put up with rude old men who fart, hawk up phlegm, and spit on subway platforms?</p>
<p>Why isn&#8217;t curfew enforced? Minors are out at all hours being mischievous and making all kinds of noise.</p>
<p>Every foreigner, in their own time and place in Japan, has many likes, dislikes, complaints, experiences, and tales.</p>
<p>I think many Japanese have good intentions, for the most part, but I don&#8217;t like the way some don&#8217;t know what to do when they find themselves in the presents of a foreigner&#8211;they laugh nervously and bow a lot, especially if they&#8217;re in a foreign country where they&#8217;re out of their group, their comfort zone, where their roles are explicitly defined for them.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t help but remember when I was in Guam, when I had to practically walk the entire way back to the resort from the Japanese consulate because no taxis would stop for me. Finally, one did stop, and I asked the driver, &#8220;Is something going on today?&#8221;</p>
<p>The driver grunted and touched his small display of Mother Mary and the Christ Child on his dashboard.</p>
<p>&#8220;I just flagged about five taxis,&#8221; I continued, &#8220;but they didn&#8217;t even slow down.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Most driver only pick up Japanese,&#8221; the driver said. &#8220;They tip. White boy like you do not tip.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I tip!&#8221; I said. &#8220;I just don&#8217;t like it when you guys think you can keep ALL the change. It happened to me this morning. You guys just keep it and open the door without saying a word.&#8221;</p>
<p>The driver looked in his rearview mirror at me and grunted again.</p>
<p>&#8220;I think most Japanese can speak enough English to ask for their change, but the way you guys just keep it! They don&#8217;t want to make waves and embarrass you&#8211;that would make them very uncomfortable. They probably think you&#8217;re too stupid to figure it out!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What you say?&#8221; the driver said, and slowed the taxi.</p>
<p>&#8220;Yeah, pull over and let me out!&#8221; I said. I tossed aside a ten-dollar bill as I got out of the taxi and slammed the door. The driver flipped me his middle finger and sped off.</p>
<p>I walked the rest of the way back to the hotel in anger; I hated ignorant westerners and assholes that took advantage of what they considered Japanese Politeness. I thought it was, for the most part, just the lack of international skills of some Japanese, who, when out of their group that defines them to the core, have problems acting and reacting, so they rely on Saving Face and Gaman, even in their own country, which I don&#8217;t think is true politeness.</p>
<p>Politeness means to act in a courteous manner, but it also means to show regard for others, even if it means a few words of rectification, the act of offering an improvement to replace a fault, and not just putting up with it.</p>
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